From the heart is the place to ask from. Practice this with knowing the answer comes back from the field of energy all around and in you. The big secret is paying attention to how the answer comes back. If you don't listen the answer comes back in a stronger voice. Many ways the world talks to us-really anyway you will listen. Numbers, feathers, dreams, music, the list is according to what you gravitate or pull in. When you push out your prays this is a magnetic force spinning out counterclockwise. The gravitation force runs clockwise pulling in the quest (ion) you are on in the form of charged energy.